Ключевые слова: attendance, before the spirit, bereaved family, bereavement, black, black formal, buddhism, ceremonial occasion, ceremony, dress, facial expression, family, family funeral, farewell ceremony, formal dress, formal wear, forty 9th, funeral, gassho, green, green areas, head of mourning, homecoming, in mourning, japanese, memorial service, mourning, mourning dress, nature, outdoor, outdoors, parents home, pray, prayer, relatives, religion, return, sad, skirt, sorrow, wake, widow, woman,